Sneaky Links from George, Western Cape writes…
I have been farming with a few goats for some six years. I met my toxic ex at a course and we were in a relationship for four years. I cheated and had sex with a colleague while he returned the favour by sleeping with one of my best friends.
He is now marrying this girl. My problem is that he still calls me and we regularly have sex. I know he still loves me, but I don’t know what to do. Do I end our relationship? Am I the right woman or the side chick? Do I fight for him?
My dearest Sneaky
Yoh Brooke Logan weh. I hate to break it to you, but you are not his forever someone and you are also not “the other woman”.
*MauryPovichVoice*
Shem darling, it is much worse, you are a bona fide sucker. Also, were you even committed to this man to begin with? There is this odd myth that when both partners cheat in the relationship, then somehow that betrayal is cancelled out. I mean if both of you lied and hurt each other then you are even, right?
Hell TF no. In a healthy loving relationship there is no cheating!
I hate to burst your fantasy bubble, but if he did love you then you would be the one he was cheating on in real time, and you would be doing the same mos? Since that is your style akere?
No man, snap out of it ka tjeno. Ebileng don’t feed into this bullshit fantasy you have cooked up into your head. Delete, ignore, block his ass.
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