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Home cook challenging gender roles in the kitchen

30-year-old Sinoyolo Sifo says cooking is his creative escape


For 30-year-old home cook Sinoyolo Sifo it is odd that most men still believe cooking is a woman’s job in a world where a significant number of chefs in the professional kitchens are male. This is a clear indication that men do not lack the capacity to take on this rolesays Sifo 

He believes the construct that cooking is solely a gender specific role is outdated. To prove this, the Durban-based cook took to social media this year and started an Instagram page he calls Sifo The Cooking Husband’ where he expresses his creativity in the kitchen by sharing easy recipes and cooking advice for husbands.  

“I think I am trying to break that stereotype to try and encourage more males to be active in the kitchen. In the olden days females were in the kitchenmostly because [men] had to work, but now everyone is working you have to share domestic responsibilities equally,” Sifo believes. 

Sinoyolo Sifo grew up surrounded by food, this would develop into his love and passion for cooking.
Sifo spends his weekends cooking meals for his wife, Nondumiso.

Born in Mthatha in the Eastern Cape, Sifo has always had a passion for food. This love stems from the influence of his father, Mthutuzeli Sifo  

Sifo senior is a farmer and butcher. He owned a chain of butcheries and sold his vegetables to local supermarkets. Growing up, the foodie helped cultivate, pick and sell his dad’s produce, which filled him with the urge to experiment in the kitchen“I’ve always loved cooking. In my youth I used to experiment with some dishes, but I never took it seriously,” he says. 

Sifo is a pharmacist by profession. In 2013, he completed his B. Pharm degree at the Nelson Mandela University (NMU) in Port Elizabeth. Sifo also met his wife, Nondumiso, at university.  

“My wife cooks amazing food, to be honest. What made us date in the first place was her cooking.

“My wife has been the believerSometimes you don’t take things seriously, but I think the way she believed in me and always tells me that we can make this dream come true, because eventually I would like to open up my own restaurant,” he says.  

The foodie admits that his wife stole hiheart with her fantastic seven colors mealsWhen they met six years ago, the couple lived on the university campus residence. “My wife cooks amazing food, to be honest. What made us date in the first place was her cooking,” he says. 

Sinoyolo Sifo.

In 2018, the couple moved to Durban, where Sifo works as a pharmacy manager. The home cook expresses his creativity through food. He believes that cooking is like art, you have to envision a dish before you can execute it. 

He has stumbled many times in the kitchen. It is not easy to navigate your way through the kitchen without passionhe says. There is always room for trial and error, but moreover there is room for redemption.  

“When I started cooking, I used to burn my food all the time,” he says. “One evening I was cooking dinner for my friends and I burned six steaksI was so angry at myself and I wanted to redeem myself, so I actually left the house and went to go buy more,” he says.  

He advises aspiring home cooks and chefs to always follow your heart and follow your instincts.” He has aspirations of starting cooking classes catered specifically for husbands. He hopes that this will be the next step that can lead to the fulfillment of his long dream of owning a restaurant one day

Noluthando Ngcakani
Noluthando Ngcakani
With roots in the Northern Cape, this Kimberley Diamond has had a passion for telling human interest stories since she could speak her first words. A foodie by heart, she began her journalistic career as an intern at the SABC where she discovered her love for telling agricultural, community and nature related stories. Not a stranger to a challenge Ngcakani will go above and beyond to tell your truth.

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